Are You Missing Out These Five Sexual Elements?

For some women the orgasm is like a myth. A thing that may exist, but which they will never experience. And this makes your partner unhappy to some extent, while actually she can’t tell the exact reason.

The truth is, that there are simple mistakes, that most couples do when having sex. And these are the main reasons why you sometimes can’t get her to reach orgasm.

Reason #1:You miss the foreplay.

The foreplay is something you should always do. Yes, most men have a good time doing it. However, most women are not aware of that. So your partner doesn’t want to force you to do something you don’t want to.

If you do a long foreplay, and show her how much you enjoy it, this will make her more relaxed. And this is key for you, if you want to give her an orgasm.

Reason #2: Distractions…

Every time you see her wandering off, bring her back to her body. This doesn’t mean she is bored, but it is understandable. Nowadays we all have plenty of things to think about.

So keep your focus on her, and she will instinctively do the same. By doing this, you enhance her response to sensual stimulation. The more she is aware of you, the more she will be able to get pleasure.

Reason #3: Not enough clitoral stimulation

You must always pay very special attention to her clitorus. Although you may be wondering how she will react to this, there is only one way to find out.

And really, all women like to feel pleasure. But not all are brave enough to ask you for it. If you show her, that you know what to do without her asking, she will be thankful.

Reason #4: Forget about the toilet

This is more of an advice to your partner, than it is to you. When you enter her vagina, she will feel the need to pee. This will make her contract her vaginal muscles, and she won’t feel much pleasure.

Again, make her relaxed. After you have entered her vagina, don’t start right away. Do some kissing, some teasing, and even ask her if she feels comfortable. Eventually she will, and after that it gets much easier.

Reason #5: Too much variety

It is always a good thing, that you are not doing the same moves over and over again. But sometimes you need to slow down a little, if you want your partner to get an orgasm.

If you discover a sex position, that you and your partner find exciting, stay with it. Change it only when you get bored with it. Until then, it will give you a lot of pleasant moments.

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